just another girls blog.

i am so tired of seeing girls freak out and complain on facebook about boys and drama, and im not saying that i myself dont do it but honestly you need to look at the situtation before you start running your mouth. FIRST off, a FACT THAT MOST PEOPLE DONT COME TO FACE is that the way that you present your self is how you are going to be treated, the way you act and the choices that you make are going to rfelect you in every way possible. so please, dont go playing the victim when your the one “pulling the trigger” here. if you act like an outcast your probably going to be treated one like one, if you act and dress like a girl with no morals, self respect, pride and class then..your going to be treated like one.. the things that you say and POST ON FACEBOOK come back to bite you in so many cases. people dont realise how big of an impact that social networking site like facebook really have; they are a common evil. they are fine to have when used the RIGHT way, or they can get you in a LOT of trouble. ive seen girls/guys lives get destroyed an picked appart of facebook by cuyber bullies, then have it taken into real life..and when i say real life i mean face to face not hidden behind a screen. people seem to have a new found confidence when hidden behind a comuter screen, saying and doing things that you wouldnt in real life. but the worst thing about non verbal communication is that there arent emotions. you could mean something and someone take it completly differently and you end up on the worng end of the conservation, then things are said like “i didnt mean it like that” or “your takign it the wrong way” well to be honest, your original intention doenst matter now; the damage is done. a computer isnt some magical force feild that is going to protect you..  but then you get the kids who hurt people on purpose, the ones getting big(mean, rude, arrogent etc.) on facebook isnt cool. or cursing..no matter where, on facebook, twitter, blogs etc. yeah, that isnt cool either. it just makes you look stupid. a wise man once said ” people use curse words because they dont have proper vocabulay skills to speak like normal human beings, so they have to use profanity”. there are two types of poeple in this world, the ones who stand by and let things happen, and the ones who use their voice and let it be heard. for all of those kids who stand up when you see a kid being picked on, or who sits with the boy/girl in the lunch room who is alone, who stands up for the girl/boy that is being slandered in a rumor that you heard, or who simply smiles at someone in the hallway when there upset; thankyou. i bet you didnt realise that you just might have made there whole day..or stopped them from doing something that might hurt themselves or others. no one is better than another. everyone is the same no matter the color of their skin, their hair color, the people they like, the ones they fall in love with, the clothes they wear.. the list can go on and on but im sure that you know that im trying to say. no matter who you are, if your straight, bi, gay,  undecided or even over the moon; your a human. your just like everyone else. people judge others before they even get to know them, and i bet you might have just walked past one the most honest, selfless, and caring people in the world, but you will never know that. YOU MISS 100% OF THE CHANCES YOU NEVER TAKE. i know your tired of hearing these stupid rants or the long annoying asemblys that most kids text or fall asleep in..im not here to do that.. i know i went from one thing to another but you need to realise that the things that you hear on tv or read in books really are real(most of the time). the kids killing themselves, running away from home, self inflicting pain, really does happen…you never know what happens behing closed doors, so dont make it worse when there open, it only takes one, one voice. be the change you want to see in others because if not you, who? be the one kid who knows that even though they might be teased or laughed at, that your being the change in someone elses life. i can say that i would be that one, ill stand up..will you?

you cant stop the future from coming, its on its way whether your ready for it or not. its not going to put up with your tears so hold and and brace yourself for all it has instore.your in for it, it takes no prosioners. i can promise you that you will learnr from this. it will build you and break you. the moment you finally think you have it, its gone. the things we find easy others have to sturggle for. the moments you spend breathing, someone else just fought their last. you look at the sunrise and daze off into the lost thoughts that are filling your head and someone some where cant even remember there first name. when your laying in bed at night and pulling the blankets over you tighter and you hear the foorsteps of your older sister walking upstairs walking up to the bathroom. when someone is laying under a bridge praying for rain for running water, who hasnt seen their family in months, and freezing; trembling so loud they can hear their own teeth. you dont know what is going on behind closed doors. ive always wanted time to myself to jsut be alone and wonder, but what i have found is that this is what it leads to.. the end result of this..the thoughts of dispare and the words of the hopeless. its as if im better of by the side of someone else, but i cant come to the idea of depending on someone else. it will only be a matter of time until you realise that im the worst chance youve ever took. but your the best bet ive ever made. be careful out there; it is the real world.

things always look different when your looking from the outside, you see sides of people you never thought existed.